After such a coaching journey that we walked all I want
to do is to give you the acknowledgment you deserve.
I started the coaching on April for a period of 4 month.
To get to coaching sessions I had to come from up north
all the way to you and each time I was excited. I came
to you, to be guided by you.
The coaching fields as contributed to me a lot in my
work as a bank manager and in my private life also. The
process did not end because I implement it every day.
The thing that made this journey so special from the
beginning to the end was your positive approach, your
ability to focus, your ability to see my agenda and
focusing on it, the endless patience, treating me with
respect, the support that you gave all the way.
There are not enough words to describe the thing you
gave me.
I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the
coaching process and I am positive that our coaching
partnership is rock solid and I know that when I will
need this partnership again it will be there for me 
Cochi |
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How do you describe such a talented coach?
First of all I truly believe that Rafael is a great
coach, his way of coaching is magical. Rafael is
talented and real professional. his ability to listen,
his understanding of what I was really saying, the way
he taught me how to learn from everything that happens
,his ability to show me the most hidden insight from
everything.
Rafael helped me to face my most hidden and dark fears
and secrets. I manage to see which qualities make me,
what are my wishes, what are my desires and most
important who are the characters that I have inside of
me. The minute we found my core essence with the help of
the coaching I was able to understand and get acquainted
with all the characters in the partnership called me.
Then and only then I was able to manage all the
characters. Make agreements between them, to know when
to give each one of them to take the rein of my life, to
give her the roll part and through that I found a lot of
answers.
Knowing and managing the characters in myself allows me
to act in same situation from a different place. Now
instead of acting from an impulsive place, panicking and
running away I take charge. I am the leader of my life.
Now I am choosing the characters they are not choosing
me.
Knowing and mastering leading the characters in my give
me the ability to honor the agreements between all of
them and by doing that the gremlins are a lot quieter.
In the coaching session I brought the agenda, if I had a
dollar for every time I heard:" so, where do we go
today?"..... I was the in charge of deciding what we are
dealing with and with the help of the coaching, guiding
questions, inquiry questions, looking at the picture as
it is, understanding what we see, understanding which
character are playing now. The right feedback and by
Rafael always keeping the space I managed to see the
picture in a clear way without any filters to disguise
what I don't want to see.
Each session ended with the question "what did you take
from this session?" and I cannot remember even one tome
that I left without a new insight about me or my life.
Rafael always showed up in a way that enables me to get
to my insight. Sometimes he was quiet. Sometimes active,
sometimes he was more aggressive. Everything he did was
in order to deepen the learning and forwarding the
action that I take.
I am happy with the results that I got from the
coaching, the feeling at the end of every session worth
every dime. I feel that I am on the right way to achieve
all my goals, desires. I am changing the things that
slowed me down in my life and now I have become the
leader in my life.
I reached some of my goals and I am on the way to
accomplish all of them. And I will.
I believe every word that is written on Rafael business
card:
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery.
Today is a gift. That's why it's called the present"
Life is too short for us to spend thinking what if?
Create your own tomorrow as you see it
Erez |
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Dear
Rafael
The coaching process was a new experience for me,
challenging and exciting one.
The coaching process opened for me a new way of thinking
about myself, about my desires, my needs and the place
where I see myself today and in a few years. The
coaching process allowed me to recheck the things I do.
The way I do things and the way I act with universe. It
enables me to watch learn how I can do things in a more
productive way for me. The coaching process helped me to
see what I really want, what I want to fulfill in my
life and most important how to do it.
No doubt that the energy you bring, your motivation and
your great will as a coach contributed a lot to the
coaching process.
As my coach you trusted me, acknowledged me, and truly
pushed me to success sometime in places where I did not
see hope. You in lighted me, revealed to me insights
that where life changing and whole of that contributed
to the coaching process
Our coaching sessions where a mild stone of building
myself personally and professionally
The coaching session left me many time excited,
wondering, with a lot of thoughts about the things we
worked on during the session.
In between the session I was often swamped with the
things we dealt, light bulbs suddenly lit up and kept me
all the time thinking about how I manage my life.
Thank you creating that place in my life
Thank you for that period of time that is life changing
Keep on and do not stop making wonders
From the bottom of my heart .
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A
man is coming to the world only once
Since then he keeps rebirthing
Every year
Every day from the beginning
The man celebrate his birthday
Not to the memory of his birthday
But to celebrate each new day
That is why every minute we have a chance to open up and
change and keep on going
Every day like a brand new day
We must to use every moment
So that this day will not be just another day
Birth day is just the beginning
Of the this wishes
Actually I wanted to wish you
A lot of everything especially happiness and endless
love
That your laughter will come from the heart
That you heart will be full of friendship and joy
That everyone around you
Will feel only joy and blessing
I wish you health and luck
All your life
Not just this year
Happy birthday filled with love
And angel blessings
For the whole year
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A
few days ago I was sitting with a friend of mine and I
tried to explain to her what made this coaching process
so special to me and this hand and the meaning of that
hand is what made everything so special, magical,
possible and unique.
For years I was praying for a hand that will not threat
me,
I was praying for a hand that I will not attack, reject,
A hand that will stay and will not disappear
And I got it
Without colors, No decoration, a hand that is always
there no matter what.
Sometimes I do not see her and sometimes I resist her,
but she is there. I have the option to choose whether to
take her or not.
There were times when I was broken to 1000 pieces,
hurting, and I felt that hand even if you where 5000
miles away, supporting and slowly lifting me up.
The crystal that is in this hand is the "prize" that I
got when I was ready to believe in this hand.
Dana b |
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To
me the coaching process was a path we took to discover
and in light my unwanted behavior patterns that I choose
from auto mode. the process coaching is like taking a
beam of light and pointing her on those behavior
patterns, watching them and then gradually pilling them
until I let go of those patterns .sometimes there was a
need to point that beam of light again and again to the
same place in order for me to understand that I do not
need them and to help me see the pros and cons in those
behavior patterns.
During the coaching my awareness got stronger and my
ability to analyze my automatic behaviors that I did not
noticed before.
The coaching process gave me tools to make the change
and I hope to use those tools in the future.
The coaching process enabled me to be open and true and
to bring myself to the process. From the first moment I
felt that I can count on your professionalism, your
secrecy and your will to help me.
even if I think that at the moment there is no area in
my life that it is important for me to work on you
helped me to see clearly the one or two area that do
need a change.
The changes affected everyone around me for the better
During the coaching process I imagined myself showing
you a problem that I do not act from the right place in/
the outcome was me thinking about possible solutions
with your inspiration. One more thing that helped me to
open up to you was your flexibility. We walked in my
paste. Sometimes probably you were expecting for a quick
and obvious change but I prevented the change so it will
suit me.
I am happy that I went through the coaching process and
I thank you for that
Ahuva |
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Rafael
boker my
world coach
I was introduced to the coaching world half a year ago
thanks to a friend of mine who is working in that field.
You were my friend coach and she strongly recommended
you and that how I met you. I decided to check this
thing that called coaching. I did not think that I
needed coaching, I was curious if this coaching can
really help me in fulfilling my goals and understanding
myself in a clearer way.
As a rationalist and a bit skeptic person I came to the
first meeting excited. From the first moment I learned
that Rafael came to the session with one purpose: to
help me (and him also) to practice together and the
target was combined and the coaching is co active
coaching.
He came from a clean place, pure, real and he defined
the coaching method and his purpose. Then I understood
that I am on my way to find new insight about topics
that probably been forgotten and fade away through life
and new insight that were waiting for the right
"trigger" in the shape of a coach.
We started to deepen the learning in topics like: values
that are super goals that we aim to in our life, the
tools to reach those goals. Finding my own and real
vision of my life, moving from being to the doing,
relationship etc. Rafael capability to "read" the
situation and me during the coaching and to push me
always forward and his insight as a coach gave some
priceless insight for that I thank you.
One of the important thing I took from coaching with
Rafael is to "real" and authentic and now I could pass
it on in my relationship with people.
Rafael has the perfect qualities for the profession that
he chooses. A profession that his purpose is to help
each and every one of us that want to reach his goals
and desires and maybe more important help them to choose
the right way for them to get there
Yoash |
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Rafael
I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart....big
thank you...huge thank you for being my coach. For being
that person who is looking at the deepest, most
sensitive places inside of me and knowing and sensing
what will move me forward, excite me. You were my
mirror. You have been the person that feels me.
I am sure that you got a lot of complement throughout
your life that you are intelligent, professional,
reliable, amazing intuition, a true leader etc.
I want to thank you for being a good friend; your
attitude toward me surprised and thrilled me. Your
dedication, your good will, your investment in me, the
time
You inspire me
It is magical and your influence on me will remain a
life time. When I will get up in the morning, when I
will be on the stage, when I will become a mother your
faith
Will always be there and will share my own faith, that
we owe ourselves to be true and happy and keep reminding
that to ourselves.
I love you for your resourcefulness, the courage, the
vision and following the dream and for who you are and
for all that you have given me
One last thanks- thank you for being Rafael
"Let's fly far away....
You will be my wings
Some kind of imaginary connection
That up until now was not impossible"
Avital
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Coaching
with Rafael gave me the ability to think different and
to look at life from a different perspective.
The challenges that were created in the coaching process
through setting new goals and target that may be existed
and pushed away in my subconscious in the coaching and
with the guides that I got from Rafael were validated
and even reached to a higher step in the ladder of my
life. Those achievements gave my life a push forward and
the mutual feed back where strong.
The coaching was professionally done and in every step I
felt that I have someone to count on
Rotem
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My
name is Avital and I have been coaching with Rafael over
three month. Not only is that Rafael charming person he
is also a professional coach, original and have strong
and honest commitment to his client.
Thanks to the coaching, things that were not clear in my
life become clearer from day to day, doing things that
advance me and make me joy and satisfaction from my
inner truth.
I start to believe that I want to live and all of that
is thanks to the coaching and Rafael. His faith in me
and encouragement to be the exact person that I want to
be
And to get all the things that I want for myself and
from this world.
Good luck to you all
Avital |
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One
of the things that I can say about myself is that today
I am less aggressive.
Today I am more aware to my ability I am aware to the
paste that I set and to the circumstances of life that I
have no control of.
The insight that I got from the long and hard coaching
process and at times unbearable am that is meant to
happen will happen
If you didn't get a job it meant that you were not meant
to have it
The people that will work with you are the one who are
worthy of you
Don't compete with people, acknowledged them, flatter
them. It will do you good
Always aim that the people who surround you will be
happy because it will reflect on you back. It is a win-
win situation
Set you goals, give yourself the target that you aim to
and stand up to it
This is the way to achieve whatever you wanted
In the beginning of the coaching I was very skeptic
about my professional future especially what will be
with my carpentry shop
The fear that I raised a generation of carpenters that
will compete with me was always there
The feeling that the days are chasing one another and
there is no goal in the distance besides financial
profit was too hard to bear.
I learned and internalized that owning and running my
carpentry shop must be more flexible and I must allow me
employees to express them self
I have to deepen their connection and their love to the
place more strong and solid.
I learned that my goal in this stage of life is
different and carpentry shop is only a tool to for
financial welfare that will enable me in the Future to
dream and accomplish more of my dreams.
Today I am building the foundation dream to open a jeep
tour company up north.
I still have not set a target date but thanks to the
coaching process I am aware to the fact that I am the
only one who is holding back from this dream to come
true
I have no doubt that the coaching that I experienced
last year from the second Lebanon war, the help from
Rafael brought me to an understanding and learning of
Life in a different perspective.
I think that I am a better person more considerate, more
giving to my surroundings and more aware to the needs of
myself and the people around me.
I know that today I am a lot closer to the inner peace
that a man deserve to have and I know that thanks to the
coaching I got serenity that brings with her improvement
Nir
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Rafael
boker volunteered in our school as a coach after the
second Lebanon war.
He gave 100% from himself
Rafael found out what are the school needs and came to
school for a whole day in order to coach ten members of
the school stuff.
He came consistency on his account up north and
dedicated many hours towards the coaching process.
In addition to that Rafael was available many hours to
the member stuff and he also led two workshops
successfully.
His professionally, dedication and commitment led the
members stuff that where taking part in the coaching
process and the entire organization to rethinking about
some topics
I want to thank Rafael from the bottom of my heart of
the wonderful gift he gave us.
Hilu Kalya
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Great
assignment you gave me. At last I have a recipient to my
letters.
Instead of writing letters to myself I am writing a
letter to each member on my team.
The truth is that I have been thinking and trying to
find the right way for me to say thank you. I know that
I have not finished the coaching journey and we are
Only in the middle but this middle, this center is maybe
just the middle but for me it's a lot.
I have not reached any kind of middle lately. I was
always at the beginning or the end of things.
I did not have any substance know that without your
support I wouldn't be in this place. I would have
probably giving up but you never gave up
I know that if we were now in a coaching session you
would say that the one who did all the work was me and
not you which is true but
You pushed me and guided me and you have been there all
the time never ever giving up. And we both know that I
pulled all the rabbits from my magic hat to make
You leave. In my wildest dreams I would not have dared
to imagine the place that I am standing now. I could not
have believed that I will be alive again.
I could not have imagined that I will ever be able to
peek beyond my own walls and also climb them with all
the fear that it bring.
I did not believe that I will fight for my life. I am
trying to find the exact word that will express what I
am feeling but the only thing that comes out is tears.
Just the fact that I am feeling something is a miracle.
You are one of a few people who saw my bare soul and you
never took advantage of that place
To break me down, on the opposite you taught me how to
learn from those situation.
In my head there is picture from the meetings that we
went to last week.
I was on the verge of nervous breakdown and I admit that
I nearly run away because I felt the shivering taking
charge on me and the tears choked me and I
Really wanted to stand behind you and hide and you would
not let me. We entered the room, i was shaking and you
saw that and I felt it and despite all of that
I knew that everything will be ok because you are there
and in case that I will fall apart you will catch me.
I asked myself a lot of times why you are not giving up
on me and tell me that our coaching journey has come to
his end. I could not understand why you keep insisting
Why you need this headache. Today I can say that I am
able to find by myself some good reason to fight for my
life.
In your own way you made me believe, you made me look up
set a target and start walking towards her.
You helped me understand that it I am allowed to dream,
I am allowed to want things for myself.
With your help and thanks to you today I know that I
have the right to be alive. And today I want to live
Thank you so much for joining battlefronts to set the
conquered Dana free.
I now have a new goal: I want to be able to give you and
all the member of my team a big hug. The moment it will
happen I will know that we reach the top of the
mountain.
II still have a lot of things to thank you for but I will
stop now otherwise you will not have time for anything.
Thank you so much
Dana |
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Dear
Rafael
The hall of fame that changed my life, the things that
appears like different places, art and musical stuff,
small moments of grace, loved animals and especially
people are all entwined through the years. When I look
back I can feel them, they are all timeless and still
with me.
And suddenly without any preparation and out nowhere you
are also on that list.
I came to you that you will coach me, but the first I
got trust. I got the feelings that everything is real
and there are no make believes in this relationship,
The feeling that I can trust you and you will always be
genuine with me came immediately and that feeling
enabled me to spread my wings and fly from the first
session. From that point my wings got stronger. My
flight today is a lot smoother and free.
At the beginning the coaching was a tool that supported
me after that it helped to untie strong knots and
eventually it escort me through my life and maybe even
through the whole life time.
Since I have been coaching with you I use my own eyes.
It feels like with you I am more of me and thanks to
that, later when I am by myself I can still be more of
me. The fact that you believed in me with no doubt, by
me knowing that you are always here helps keep my doors
open to the world.
You are huge gift.
And if you are looking for recommendation here is my
recommendation: try the inner team work with Rafael.
You're guaranteed for a journey full of surprises
Looking at yourselves from outside and most important -
it is a method that set you free and stays with you and
allows you to use it at any given moment when you need
it.
A real first aid kit for that we are here
Thank you Rafael.
Batya |
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Rafael |
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